A Guy’s Guide – How Do You Plan A Safe Hook Up?

If you have a hook up coming up, you’ll need to know a few things beforehand. We’ll be running through the many ways you can stay safe. So, read ahead.

Get Her Number

If you and your online match are serious about hooking up, it’s important that you get her number. If she isn’t serious, there’s no way they would give someone from the internet their number.

Video Call Her

Before the two of you meet up, you should video call each other. This would let you know if the person you’re speaking to is the same person in the pictures you’ve seen. If they don’t look the same, you know you’ve been catfished.

You shouldn’t just video call them once. Do this a couple of times so that you can be sure of who you’re talking to.

Being catfished is embarrassing but it can also be dangerous. The person may have used a fake account to lure you in. She may have done so with sinister intentions in mind, so you could have just saved yourself from a possible life and death situation.

Thankfully, your chances of getting catfished are less if you use sites like sexymeets.club as they are more trustworthy.

Be Mindful Of The Information You’re Giving Her

The internet is a very risky place to post sensitive information. This is especially the case with dating sites and apps. This is why you should be very careful with what you tell her as this may give her leverage over you.


She could use what you’ve said to manipulate you, or she could use it to ruin your life. For example, she may know you want to have an extramarital affair and may threaten to tell your wife about what you’ve been up to unless you pay her.

Where Will You Be Hooking Up?

The two of you will have to decide where you are going to hook up. This can be anywhere but your home. This is because your home will have a lot of private information about yourself.

You shouldn’t plan the hook up at her place either as you’re not familiar with her home or who she’s living with. If anything were to go wrong, you won’t be able to escape.

This is why the perfect location would be a hotel. However, this may be difficult as booking a room can be a bit expensive. If so, you could have the hook up at your place, but be mindful of anything that reveals too much about yourself.

Leave If You Feel Unsafe

You should always follow your instincts. If you’re with your hook up and you feel unsafe, you shouldn’t hesitate to leave. If you don’t like the idea of walking out suddenly, you should come up with a couple of excuses before your big night. For example, you could have a friend call you, and tell you someone you know got into an accident.

Hook-ups are great for people looking for a little fun. That being said, they can be risky at times, which is why we’ve provided some tips on how to stay safe.


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