If you’ve been in multiple relationships, you’re bound to have been cheated on at least once.
If you’re married, your partner cheating isn’t something you would want to think about. Unfortunately, this may be happening to you. That’s why we’ll be running through some ways to sniff this out.
He’s At The Gym A lot
There’s nothing strange about working out at the gym. Well, more often than not.
If you’ve been in a relationship for a long time and your significant other has started going to the gym for the first time, something might be going on.
Hopefully, he’s had an epiphany and wants to live a healthier lifestyle. Although you can hope for the best, this may not always be the case.
Instead, he may have someone he’s interested in. She could be younger, which is why he’s starting to take more care of himself.
By looking his best, he can attract this younger, more attractive person.
It’s not just spending time at the gym, but the way he dresses that can be a major giveaway. If he pays more attention to how he looks, be wary.
Why Is He Always On His Phone?
Your partner might be always on the phone. If you ask him why he’ll probably tell you it’s because of work.
Most of the time when men say they have to take care of some work, they’re hiding something. When he gets a call from ‘his office’, you should listen to everything that’s being discussed. If you suspect something, don’t be afraid to ask him about it directly. Hopefully, he’ll slip up and you’ll find out what he’s actually doing.
Is He Nervous?
If he’s cheating on you, he’s very likely to be nervous. His nerves are getting the best of him as he’s afraid you’ll find out what he’s been up to.
Of course, signs of nervousness differ per person. Some men are easier to read than others. So, consider the type of person he is and look for signs that show he’s trying to hide something.
You should do this when you’re interrogating him as this is when he’s going to be the most uneasy.
What About Your Bank Account?
The two of you may share a bank account. You should go through your bank book as this will give you a clue as to whether you’re being cheated on.
You can examine it to see if large amounts of cash have been withdrawn from your account. Obviously, if he hasn’t spent this money on you, he might have a mistress.
On the other hand, since he knows you have access to the bank account, he may have opened a separate one without you knowing. By looking at your shared account, you can tell if this was done as well.
All you have to do is check if he’s been withdrawing cash. If he hasn’t, consider the possibility that he might have another account.
Just to be on the safe side, look for bank statements and unusual debit cards lying around. They could be for his new account.
His Friends Know
If he’s cheating on you, it’s a guarantee that his friends know about it. So they might treat you differently.
Most of the time, they’ll treat you more compassionately as they know what’s happening. What’s more is that they may be on edge as they feel uneasy about it themselves.
If you feel suspicious, don’t be afraid to speak to one of them. They’re more likely to crack than your significant other. To make it easier, speak to one of his friends that you’re the closest to.
Is He Insecure?
What’s weird is that guys who cheat are very insecure about their relationships. They constantly doubt you, which is why they might cheat on you.
Their insecurities will be heightened when they’re cheating as they’ll feel guilty as well.
How’s His Libido?
He may not find you interesting anymore because he’s always with his mistress. That’s why his libido might be low.
However, if his libido is high, he could be cheating as well. This is because his sex drive is in full swing as he’s constantly having fun with his dirty little secret.