There are so many dating sites in the UK designed for men that it can be incredibly hard to choose among them. We joined most of them and compiled a summary below to help you out with selecting the most effective one.
Opt for a Pay Site
Our favorite site was sexymeets.club, which lets you access all the features although it is a pay website. You can evaluate different profiles and select the ones that you find most appealing and even send several messages for free. Additional functions will be added if you verify your email (you do not have to be concerned about spam since you can disable your email address on your profile).
We sent a couple of messages to girls, and we were genuinely surprised. The users are probably more serious on this site because they pay per message if they extend their memberships on the platform.
After sending the free messages, you can purchase coins at various price points depending on how much you want to invest in interacting with the girl and also the value per buck.
A common problem with sites offering monthly subscription is that it is hard to unsubscribe from them which is what makes sexymeets.club an awesome website. Instead of subscribing to a monthly package, you don’t use more money than the amount you are committed to spending on the site. Spamming girls is however not recommended on the platform. The women seem used to receiving serious requests and are interested in developing meaningful interactions. The women we sent messages to on the site were responsive and eager to communicate.
We were privileged to meet Andy, a member of sexymeets.club who outlined his experiences:
Andy (35, London)
Andy: I was glad to have joined this site since I quickly contacted girls in my locality who seemed enthusiastic to talk to me. Having used other websites, I was used to girls selling services and requesting for my email. Sexymeets.club clearly has good security systems and customer support as there are no girls like that. I invested my time in getting to connect with three girls and arranged for a date with one of them. I really liked her and turns out she really liked me too as we are engaged to marry. I no longer have a need for dating sites.
Another user, Lisa, was kind enough to share her experience on sexymeets.club:
Lisa: I have sampled numerous dating sites, either on a free basis or through a monthly subscription. I was used to getting hundreds of messages daily from various guys, and it was challenging to pay attention to a few conversations. My experience with sexymeets.club was quite different. It seems like girls outnumber men since when men propose a meeting on the first day (a common occurrence), and I decline because I want to interact with them more, they quickly focus on another girl. These were new encounters for me. I was, however, lucky to meet a man who was patient enough to understand that I was interested in who he was before organizing a date. We are currently together and not using dating websites anymore.
Free Dating Sites
After sampling different dating platforms, we do not recommend signing up to free sites. Most of them have thousands of male profiles per female. As a test, we initiated communication using 100 messages to 100 different women on one of these free sites. The response was usually one short generic reply. Members in pay sites are a bit more serious since they have invested more effort in trying to meet different people which makes them rank better than free sites.
Dating Sites with Monthly Subscription
In our experience, sites with a monthly subscription are not also effective. Typically, members do not have access to the major features of the site until they sign up for a monthly plan. The subscription lets the members send as many messages as they please. Guys, however, seem to aim at maximizing the money they spend by spamming women with messages that are not serious. You will have less luck therefore trying to send serious messages to find their way through the hundreds of spams.
We liked using sexymeets.club and we would recommend it to anyone willing to be serious about their online dating. If you think it is expensive, consider the money you will need to organize a date with a woman and how many of them you need to take out to improve your chances of success. There are multiple options nowadays, and it has become hard to identify serious dating sites.
Relationship expert. I like to write articles that helps people get back on the horse and start dating again. I have been writing for blogs since 2003