You got through your first date! Your second date’s coming up, but you might worry that you’ll blow it. Below, we’ll be running through the things you should and shouldn’t do so you can meet up for a third and maybe even a fourth date!
Not Be The Same Person
The two of you would have hit it off on the first date. The chemistry you had may have been good, which is why you shouldn’t try too hard the second time around. She enjoyed your company so if you act like someone else, you’ll put her off.
Unfortunately, a lot of guys do this. They think they have to outdo themselves to make the girl fall in love with them. Not only will this ruin your chances of going on a third date, but you’ll also end up making a fool of yourself as you could go overboard.
Don’t Feed Your Lie
People that use dating sites, whether it’s flirtilla.com or something else, beef up their personas. So, if you built a fake character, don’t contribute to it. Don’t feed her more lies because if the two of you end up dating again, she’ll expect the fake version of you. So, try and act more like yourself on the second, third and fourth dates.
This doesn’t mean you should not put in any effort at all, just be more natural.
Be Too Comfortable
It’s not your first date anymore. The two of you don’t have to be as nervous around each other. So, let go.
Some of us may take this too seriously and become over-friendly. Whatever you do, don’t go there. Although you’re more familiar with each other, you could scare her off.
You can prevent yourself from getting too comfortable by being careful of what you say. Of course, don’t be too harsh on yourself as you’ll end up being stuck in your head the whole night.
Talk About Your Future
Don’t plan your future together when you hardly even know them! The chances of you planning more dates is high, but at the end of the day, things might not work out. So, don’t act like she’s the love of your life yet. While on this topic, don’t bring up anything about a third or fourth date until the end of the night.
You might give off needy energy if you act too possessive as well. You’ll come off as a creep and not a gentleman, unfortunately.
Ask Her How She Feels About You
Not only should you avoid asking her about your future, but also how she feels about you. It’ll make you look desperate so if you had a confident persona throughout the night, you may have just shattered it.
Right off the bat, don’t talk about sex. There’s no way she’ll want to get intimate with you two dates in. It’s a general rule that sex should be avoided until the fourth or fifth date, so don’t rush her.
If you do, no matter how great the night was, you’ll make her think that all you wanted was to get in her pants.
So, what do you think? These tips would help your second date go as smoothly as possible and make her look forward to seeing you again.