All the Right Places: A Guide to Touch on the First Date

A touch is a powerful tool. It can show and reciprocate desire. It can act as non-verbal flirting. It can even tell you if a second date might happen or not. At the same time, touch can also be rather overpowering or even overwhelming if you are a woman.

So, if you are on a date, then you have to be incredibly careful about how you make physical contact with a lady. Too much and you will probably creep her out. Too little and you may end up coming off as lukewarm. If you are looking to strike the right balance, here is what you need to do:

Know Each Other? Hug Her When You Meet Her

Have you had prior contact with your date? For instance, were you introduced by friends? Or maybe, you have met on a previous non-romantic occasion. If you have built up a certain level of familiarity, then a hug is quite natural.

In case this is the first time that you are meeting up, you may want to watch her body language. Is she leaning towards you, expecting a hug or is she simply standing there? If you do decide to go in for a hug, pay attention to how she reacts. In the event that she stiffens up, she may not be into physical contact just yet.

Take Stock of Her Personality

If you are like most people today, there is a good chance that you have met your date on a dating site such as Sexymeets.club. This means that you will have had some time to get to know her. Use these clues to determine how your date will respond to touch.

For instance, has she been quite flirty and forward in her interactions? If so, she may be more responsive to contact. On the other hand, if she seems pretty shy or not that experienced, you may want to take things more slowly.

Look for Side-by-Side Seating

Most restaurants will seat you across from one another. However, this isn’t all that romantic. Not to mention, side-by-side seating allows you to be near your date without actually physically touching her. So, it is a great way to really build up some sexual tension.


To ensure that you get seated properly, call ahead and check on their table arrangements. Or, head to a place with booths. It will be a lot easier for you to simply slide in next to your date once she is seated. But remember, don’t get too close to her – give her room to breathe!

Always Start with the Hands

As mentioned, touch can be intimidating if you move too fast or touch a woman inappropriately. This is why you should always start with something simple and innocent – her hands. During your meal, wait until her hand is on the table. Then, while talking to her, find a way to gently touch her hands.

If she seems cool with this move, then this is certainly a good sign for you. If you don’t seem to get a chance to do this, make up an excuse. Compliment her bracelet or watch or talk about how small her hands are. This will give you an opportunity to take her hand in yours. Again, though, you should only hold on for as long as she is comfortable with it.

If you are getting all the right signals, then you can move things a little further. Start by touching her on her upper arm. Then move to her shoulder. When you are walking out of the restaurant, gently place your hand in the middle of her back to guide her. Always keep an eye on how she responds to every move that you make. If she seems fine with it and doesn’t freeze up, you should be in the clear.

With these tips, you will always know just where to touch a woman for maximum impact – a great trick to use on all your dates.


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